To all those obsessed with 'Love',
Islam teaches us to be truthful and realistic. Usually, we love for the
sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah. Islam teaches us that a
male and female can build up a good relationship founded on marriage.
We do not say love is halal or haram because it is a feeling. Maybe it is
not under control. You can judge what is under control. But people who fall
in love are in many episodes away rom the cleansed and pure atmosphere.
Marriages that are usually good and lasting marriages are those that start
at the least affection. That affection grows after marriage and maybe it
will grow until the couples continue their companionship at the Jannah.
Today, everything tells you that all is okay for the sake of love. In
songs, we're told that 'as long as we're together, nothing else matters'.
We're given encouragement actually to "fight" for our love, and for some
reason that makes us like the person more. We're told that as long as the
person is understanding and sweet and blah blah blah, that all is good and
you can cross anything and everything to be with them.
But if you look at these same people, take a look five years or even ten
years down the road, their lives have become unbearable because they cannot
stand each other. These same people who were sooo madly in love…have broken
homes, divorced, fighting child custody battles.
Why? Because the term love gives such a blinding illusion that makes you
forget reality and so you keep going deeper and deeper into the person and
every fault gets over looked due to this 'blindness' until ten years down
the road you realize who this person really is.
Love itself is an emotion that you have little direct control over. What
you think about and what you do are things you can control, and are morally
responsible before Allah for.
And when any worldly love impinges on the purity of one's love for Allah
and His Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him), then we chose lasting
love over love that does not last.
And this whole time there is a hole in us humans, that still never gets
filled. Why?
True love isn't found in people. Peace cannot be sought in people. Love &
Peace only comes through knowing yourself through knowing the one who knows
you best- Allah.
"Truly in the heart there is a void that cannot be removed except with the
company of Allah, And in it there is a sadness that cannot be removed
except with the happiness of knowing Allah and being true to Him. And in it
there is an emptiness that cannot be filled except with love from Him and
by turning to Him and always remembering Him. And if a person were given
all of the world and what is in it, it would not fill this emptiness." by
Ibn Al Qayyim rahimahullah
Last but not the least,What Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala have made haram for u
can never bring happiness ... !!
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