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Sand and Stone. A story of Forgiveness

 

 
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The mind is like our child. Take care of your child and also all your responsibilities like family, career and health. The first priority will be the child within and then everything outside.While taking care of your responsibilities, the child might start crying, the mind starts getting irritated, angry or hurt. Withdraw for a minute from activity and heal the child, talk to the mind and change the quality of thoughts.
 
The child within is not in our control.  No one taught us what to think or how much to think. Discipline this child with love, not force or harshness. While dealing with others, remember we are dealing with the child within them.
RESPONSIBILITY means the ABILITY to RESPOND the right way in every situation. So the priority list of responsibilities will be SELF, FAMILY and WORK. If we take care of our emotional well being we will have good relations and then perform well at work.


Like we choose the clothes we wear, let us choose the thoughts we create. The thoughts which suit our personality, which are comfortable for us and which will be appreciated by others.
We create 50 to 60,000 thoughts in a day. Our thoughts become our energy field. Our energy field moves with us and radiates to everyone like the perfume we use.Even if we create hurt, resolve the issue and reduce the time for which we will remain in pain. Else we can carry it for months and years. Answer the mind and close the topic, heal the pain.
 Our every THOUGHT is followed by a FEELING. Feelings over a period of time develop our ATTITUDE. Attitude comes out into ACTION. Any action done repeatedly becomes a HABIT. All our habits put together is our PERSONALITY. Our PERSONALITY creates our DESTINY.
 
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Violence has pervaded all levels of society today.  From wars, clashes, terrorist attacks to individual crimes we are witnessing increasingly shocking acts of violence these days.  All forms of violence we witness in this world are the manifestation of the violence within ourselves.
 
There has been much introspection and study on the factors that lead to violent behavior – social, political, economic, psychological etc.  Poverty, lack of employment, lack of education, alcoholism, drugs, sexual perversion, money, power are many of the factors that are cited as reasons and motives for violence.  But violence is much deep rooted.  It stems from a far greater ignorance than humanity is aware of.  The genesis of violence is very subtle and deeply seated in human consciousness.
 
Violence originates from vices.  When human souls forget their true identity and begin to identify with their body, their roles and material assets, they come under the influence of vices.  To think and act under the influence  of vices is to commit violence because the soul is violating its true nature of peace, joy, love and power.
 
The five forms of violence committed by human beings are to indulge in five vices – lust , anger, greed, attachment and ego.  All vices are connected to the feeling of wanting or desiring.  All desires keep us in the illusion of fulfillment that is gained only for a fleeting moment.
 
LUST -  has been considered as the greatest enemy of human soul. Lust  destroys all purity and power in the soul.  It is a great deception.  Lust is not just to indulge in physical pleasures.  People often spend their lives lusting for money and power.  Lust is an obsessive or addictive desire to seek support, fulfillment, happiness and self worth by indulging in pleasures that finish all inner powers and dignity of the soul.  It creates endless cycles of desires and indulgence.  It makes a person extremely selfish and finishes all clarity, sensitivity, love and truth in the soul.
 
ANGER – is a fire that burns the self and others.  When desires or expectations are not met; when situations or people don't our way we become angry and react.  Anger blunts our discernment and decision-making powers.  We are not able to think and act rationally when we are angry.  We are totally overpowered by negative emotions and we use emotionally charged words or actions to force others to meet our expectations.  Anger always makes a soul subservient to other people's behavior and situations.  Anger can lead to destructive behavior that can cause great damage on large scale such as war, terrorism, murders etc.
 
GREED – is another word for insatiable desires.  A greedy person is always poor and empty inside even though he may have lots of material assets at his disposal.  Greed keeps one in a state of continuous seeking and chasing desires.  Greed inevitably leads to unrighteous and corrupt practices.  It makes a person very unhappy, fearful, dishonest and irresponsible.  Greedy people can never enjoy life as they always want more.  Greed can lead to total imbalance and exploitation of man and nature which can result in wide-spread damage.
 
ATTACHMENT – is a subtle but deep-rooted vice.  Many saints have pointed out attachment as the root of all suffering.  Attachment comes from the need to feel supported and valued by people, objects and roles.  It makes one selfish and creates strong sense of false support and identity.  Attachment keeps one entangled in the web of 'mine' and the need to hold on to whatever one is attached to.  Attachment makes one selfish petty and narrow-minded.
 
EGO – is the subtlest enemy of the soul.  When we are under the influence of ego we are totally disconnected from our true self-respect. In ego, we fabricate and identify ourselves with false self image.  Ego thrives on attention and an egoist person always feels insecure and seeks attention  It is said – if it hurts it is ego.  An egoist is always influenced by praise and defamation.  Ego keeps one under deep delusion and falsehood.  It isolates a person from others and sets up clashes, discord, hatred and blind competition.
 
All the bad things happening in the world today can be traced to these five forms of violence.  When we understand our true spiritual nature – that all souls are pure and peaceful beings who innate nature is divine – we can make a choice to live by our truth and not to violate ourselves.  When we violate ourselves we are violating eternal spiritual laws that are needed to sustain peace and harmony in this world.
  Violence can only be eliminated by following spiritual principles and by becoming viceless through spiritual communion with God.



 
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 DR.BK.Satyanarayan 
   



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Cheerfulness

Cheerfulness keeps up the spirit of the one who possesses it and brings a smile to the lips of others.
 
 
There are some false ideas about anger that we have acquired, which we use to justify and nourish our anger:

1. Anger is a natural response to other people's behaviour.
Fact:
You don't realize the danger anger presents to your personal health and well-being. By maintaining this belief, you conveniently avoid the inner work of changing a deep negative habit.
Tip For Transformation:(Change) Meditation enables you to remain kind towards what and who you see, no matter what they appear to have done.

2. In order to be assertive (confidently aggressive or self-assured), I have to use anger as a weapon.
Fact: Anger is the opposite of assertiveness. When you become angry, firstly you are killing yourself, and those with whom you become angry are only going to give back to you what they get or distance themselves from you completely.

Tip For Transformation: To make a real and lasting peace with others we need to be anger-free, which can be achieved through meditation.
 
Experiencing Self-Rule Through Meditation

Practicing meditation helps us to reach our goals of self change, because during meditation we link our soul self with the Supreme Energy (God), who fills us with power. The more mentally powerful we become through meditation, the more confident we are with the ability to respect our self more. We become more stable in our own self, we are able to control our reactions a bit better and we wait. We don't suppress the self. Rather, we wait, observe, clarify and then control our reactions (including, of course, our tongue!).

We don't want to be ruled by our negative emotions. We still meet them, acknowledge them, try to understand them and dissolve them. We cannot pretend that they are not there, but we are no longer a slave to them. As we follow our spiritual path more closely, we learn that we don't want to damage ourself, nor do we want to damage others. We become a little more careful. Sometimes we know what is the right thing to do, but still we are not able to control our reactions, or act correctly. We know, understand, agree but still can't do the right thing. Then we are filled with guilt and regret, having done the wrong thing. We lose our self-respect. What can we do then? Where do we find the strength to change? Spiritual knowledge shows us the way as to what is right and what is wrong and in silence through meditative practice, we are able to find the strength to be able to put this knowledge and our basic values as well as our conscience (inner voice) into practical karma and thus bring about change.
 
Soul Sustenance

The Functioning Of My Internal Processor

The body consists of physical limbs to move around and carry out its tasks in the physical world. So too, the soul has the subtle limbs – the limb possessing the power to think (mind), the limb possessing the power to reason and make decisions (intellect) and limb of its own unique personality. These three subtle limbs are used to maneuver, control and carry out tasks in the inner subtle (non-physical) world of thoughts, feelings, emotions, decisions, mental images and nature characteristics (or commonly called habits). I need to understand completely how these limbs work individually and also how they function together in conjunction as a team. This understanding helps me immensely in putting my personal mental and emotional world in order.

If the processor of my computer develops a problem, my computer comes to a standstill. I will be able to fix it only if I know how it works. In the same way, I have an internal processor which has three processes going on inside it continuously right through the day - the processes of thinking (mind), deciding (intellect) and becoming (sanskaras) – which affect my complete functioning as a human being. Only if I understand completely the functioning of this internal processor, can I start to correct myself and function well.

Message for the day

To be experienced means not to be deceived by anything.

Expression: There are so many times when a situation takes us by surprise and we make the same mistake that we had made before. It is only when the situation has passed that we realise that we have actually repeated that mistake. What then remains is only repentance as the time has passed where we could have done something.

Experience: Whenever there is a mistake, we need to take care that we learn from whatever has happened. When we continue to move forward in this way there will be no repentance for the mistakes made but there will be learning that'll make us experienced. And when we are experienced we'll never be deceived by situations which make us commit mistakes.

 
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