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When there is some sort of insecurity or the perception of not being enough, there is dependency for that perceived security.

A child will depend on his father to fulfill his basic needs. That child may be dependent all of his life for different reasons, or he may "grow up" and become self-reliant. Nevertheless, many times there is a symbiosis going on where a father may depend on the child through emotional support.

Human beings tend to develop a dependency on something considered "greater" or "helpful." Dependency is how our consciousness of "individuality" may be challenged, nevertheless; the reason underneath is convenience.

It is convenient that someone else will take care of "me." :-)

That perception of being "taking care of" tends to be demanding over time. The sense of "ownership" arises on one side while dependency increases on the other.

In a human relationship, that setting could be called "love" but it is only dependency.

In the realm of spirituality there is the same type of dependency.
Some may consider someone to be enlightened and then, they will blindly follow everything that "guru" says, writes or communicates through his\her followers.

That dependency occurs because of the inability of some to "walk their own walk." It is safe to follow others who we may consider to be enlightened. It is safe to follow an organized path where things are pretty much established.

Not being able to live with uncertainty will make someone compliant to anything perceived to be greater than themselves.

That is how religions have exploited the idea of God.
It is true that some may have had a divine experience with what was perceived to be God at the time, but that experience does not come with a belief in it, with a philosophy, with an idea to follow "someone."

That is human interpretation.

Dependency arises when there is a lack of self-worth. It is the ego who wants to be
"saved" through belonging to someone or somebody.

It is more "convenient" that way.

The path of the spiritual walker is not something that is made in a "cookie cutter" machine.
It is a unique path where our realizations become our door to further understanding. Those realizations are specifically about inner discovery and integration with all, Totality; that is the 2 sides of the same coin of "Being."

That is why reading books, attending religious ceremonies, listening to "spiritual talk" could be helpful as long as those things become ingredients for that inner observation.
It is about discovering our own potential.

Someone who is truly interested in humanity; someone who truly loves another will not be interested in creating dependency.

If someone feels dependent on God, on a religion on a system, on a guru, etc. That person is still a child by "convenience."

A symbiosis may appear that we could call "love" or another "nice" accepted word; but not the opportunity to develop and to know what freedom is, beyond the meaning of the dictionary.


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Your Divine Friend 
DR.BK.Satyanarayan

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Daily Positive Thoughts: May 17, 2014: Riches
 

Artist: Josephine Wall

 

Riches

The greatest good we can do for others is not to share our riches with them, but to reveal to them their own.
 
 

Challenges

The one who has the courage to process problems or challenging
situations is the one who faces them with courage. He never tries to
escape the challenge. Nor does he try to suppress the thought about
the problem. He instead uses all the available resources for constant
growth. When I understand why the challenge has come my way, I am able
to remain content. I am free from waste thoughts or questions about
others. I see a solution in each and every problem. So the problem
doesn't remain a problem for me. I don't suppress thoughts that
might emerge at a later time.

 

 

Soul Wound Healing Through Meditation


Our connection with the Supreme Soul, through meditation, is the best way of healing the inner wounds and negative traces, inside the soul, which have been left by the negative karmas of the past. Given below is a meditation commentary that will help you to absorb the positive healing energy of the Supreme in order to do the same:

I become aware of myself as a tiny sparkling star of light, situated just above the eyebrows - a soul... In soul consciousness, I experience the beauty of the many qualities like peace, love and bliss; of the spiritual being that I am... Now I turn my mind to the soul world... Over there, I visualize, in front of me - a sparkling Sun of golden light - God, the Father and Mother of me, the soul... He radiates immense spiritual energy... I turn my mind and intellect to his light... I feel the warmth of His presence and the light of His love for me gently healing the wounds of the past that are buried deep inside me, the soul... wounds left by ego, fear, sorrow, jealousy, hatred, anger... 

While I sit and absorb this healing energy from the Source, I also transmit that light and positive energy out into the world... This light touches everyone I know and have ever known... It is a light which also heals my negative vision of them... I now recognize everyone around me as bother souls, playing their own unique roles... With this new soul-conscious vision, I experience unconditional love for each soul and all negative memories and past hurts associated with each of my relationships is consciously released... The past is forgotten, resulting in a deep feeling of freedom inside me...

The beauty of the Law of Karma is realizing that when our consciousness is filled with happiness, peace and love for others today; and we transmit that positivity to others through our words and actions, the energy received back from each of our relationships, as a result of doing that; ensures that our own future will be bright.
 
 
 
Soul Sustenance
 

Going Back To My Original Nature (Personality) 

Our present personalities are basically the combined habits of this lifetime (birth), built on the combined habits of previous lifetimes (births), all of which have left their mark (sometimes deep and sometimes not so deep) on our consciousness. It may well be that habits such as becoming angry, upset, anxious, stressed, sorrowful or scared, have been with us for so long that, they feel a natural part of our inner world, so natural that when someone says our true nature is not anger but peace, not fear but love, not aggression but acceptance, not anxiety but calm, it does not feel right. And even if it did feel right for a moment, we have become so attached to our old habitual moods, emotions and behaviors that we do not really want to change. It may even be the case that we have become so weak that we need help to change. It seems much easier to stay the way we are. 

As we begin to meditate and develop our spiritual practice, our views on the above subject will fluctuate. When that does happen, imagine you are having a conversation with yourself and teaching yourself. Give yourself permission to be peaceful by nature, full of love and joy by nature, naturally content by nature, wherever you are and in whatever you do. After a while, you won't need to give yourself permission and you will find these states of being are there within you quite naturally at every moment. They are our original and eternal nature. Everything else is acquired or learned. In so many ways introduction to spirituality, like many other approaches to inner awakening, is as much about unlearning (the acquired beliefs) as it is about learning (new beliefs). 

 

 

Message for the day

 

 

To be clean at heart is to give happiness to others. 

Expression: The one who has a clean heart is the one who always tries to do the best for those with whom he comes in contact. Thus, the person develops the ability to accept others as they are and ignore anything wrong done by them. Instead, he is able to do the right action without losing the balance. So such a person brings happiness for himself and for others through every action he performs. 

Experience: When I have a clean heart I am able to have an experience of my inner qualities. I am able to enjoy the beauty of the different relationships, each relationship and each person being unique. Thus others are able to get in touch with their inner beauty too. So there is happiness experienced by all. 


DR.BK.SATYANARAYAN

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Cuidado con el chocolate!   /   Beware the chocolate


























Este es el resultado:

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 Oscurece la piel !!!   Darkens the skin  !!!

 

 

 



 

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 `THE WINNER AND THE LOOSER`



The Winner is always part of the answer.

The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program.

The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you."

The Loser says, "That's not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem.

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner sees a green near every sand trap

The Loser sees two or three sand traps near every green.

The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it's possible."

The Loser says, "It might be possible but it's too difficult."




Be a Winner ALWAYS !!!
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Rose!

 

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 `Besabab `
 
 
Besabab baat ba.Dhaane kii zaruurat kyaa hai
ham Khafaa kab the manaane kii zaruurat kyaa hai
dil se milane kii tamannaa hii nahii.n jab dil me.n
haath se haath milaane kii zaruurat kyaa hai
ra.ng aa.Nkho.n ke liye buu hai damaago.n ke liye
phuul ko haath lagaane kii zaruurat kyaa hai..
`
 
  
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Rose!