When we make our happiness dependent on a person's behavior or the outcome of a situation, there will be a dependency and therefore fear.
When happiness is dependent, we give power to the other person or situation, and thereby become weak.
The situation is a stimulus. The response to the situation is our creation and is completely our choice.
Our state of being influences the situation, i.e. the being comes into the doing. Anything done repeatedly then becomes a habit. So being, doing and then becoming is our choice.
When we believe that our reactions to situations are dependent on the situation, then we shift to an automatic way of reacting, rather than choosing our reactions.
Situations outside are uncertain. If we make our state of mind dependent on them, then our reactions also become uncertain.
When people around us are in physical or emotional pain, we need to take care of our self. If we remain strong we will help to heal their mind. If we create pain, we will add pain to their pain.
If we stop our negative emotions from coming into words and actions, we reduce their intensity and increase our will power.
Your Divine Friend
DR.BK.Satyanarayan
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