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*1484...Ab Aaa Bhi Jao Jahan Ho...Pak Old*
Sathi kahaaan ho 
 
Awaaz toooo do
 
Pal pal mera pyaar poukare
 
Sab dastoor hain jhuthye
 
Jhuthi hain sab rasmain
 
Yeh manzoor hay kab dunia ko
 
Mil k raheen apas main
 
Ab a bhi jao jahan hoo
 
Tarpane wale kahan hoo
 
Dil ka dard koy na jane 

 
Sab hain yahan begane
 
Tum bin koun sune humrahi
 
Dard bhare afsane

 
Ab a bhi jao jahan ho
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VERY VERY FRUITFULY ALL MUSLIMS.
 
Do You know what will be the first thing that will be asked  from this Ummah
Five Prayers
 
Do you know what was the first prayer offered By Mohammad S.A.W It Was Duhr Prayer
 
Do you know ! who will be the first one entering Jannah
He will be Prophet Mohammad S.A.W
 
?Do you know who will be the first Ummah Entering  Jannah
It will be Ummah of Prophet Mohammad S.A.W
 
?Do you know who is the first one who say Azan in heaven
He was Jibrail A.S
 
Do you know who first predicted the hours to be twelve
It was Nooh A.S, who did this when he was on boat to find out the times for prayers
 
Do you know who was the first person who said SUBHANA RABBI AL AALA, he was Israfeel A.S.
 
Do you know what was the first ayah revealed from Al-Quran
It was Surah Al-Alaq Ayah 1


Do you know who ! first wrote with pen
He was Hazrat Idrees A.S

Do you know what was the last ayah revelaed from Al-Quran
It was Al-Baqara Ayah 281
 
?Do you know what was the fist verse revealed from Torah
It was Bismillah hir rahman nir raheem
 
Do you know what is the MO St Supreme Ayah in Quran
Its Ayat Al-Kursi -------Al-Baqara Ayah 255

Whoever said SUBHAN ALLAHi WA BIHAMDIHI hundred 100 times,
All his sins will be forgiven even if they are as much as foam of the sea.
 
WHoever will say LAILLAHA ILLA ANTA SUBHANAKA INNI KUNTU MINAZ ZALIMEEN,
Whenever ! he is in sorrow, Allah will take away all his sorrows Just like He saved YUNUS A.S, when he was inside the fish.

The Prophet (saw)said, "(There are) two words which are dear to the Beneficent (Allah) and very light (easy) for the tongue (to say), but very heavy in weight in the balance.
They are: Subhan Allah WA-bi hamdihi' and 'Subhan Allah Al-'Azim."
 
Ibn-al Qayyaum R.A said: the things that make the body sick are:
Too much! talking,
Too much sleeping,
Too much Eating
 
Jabir reported that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'Whoever says Subhan-Allah- al-Azim WA bihamdihi (Glorified is Allah, the Great, with all praise due to Him), will have a palm tree planted for him in paradise.''
Reported by Tirmidhi
 
Juwairiyah bint Al-Harith (May Allah be pleased with her) reported, the Mother of the Believers: The Prophet (PBUH) came out from my apartment in the Morning as I was busy in performing the dawn prayer. He came back in the forenoon and found me sitting there. The Prophet (PBUH) said, "Are you still in the same position as I left you." I replied in the affirmative.
Thereupon the Prophet said,"I recited four words three times after I had left you. If these are to be weighed against all you have recited since morning, these will be heavier. These are:
Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, `adada khalqihi, wa rida nafsihi, wa zinatah `arshihi, wa midada kalimatihi

This is most common among us...... most of us talk during Azaan..
 
The Holy Prophet (SAW) said, Stop doing everything during the Azaan, even reading the Quran, the person who talks during the Azaan will not be able to say the Kalima Shahadat on his/her death bed....
Please pass this message to Muslims...


READ THIS DUAA FOR BETTER LIFE
Allahumma- inni- ala-Zik-rika- wa Shuk-rika wa husni-ibadatika.
 
A very powerful Dua'a has been sent to you. Send this to as many as you can.
 
Prophet Mohammad said this 1400 yrs ago!

Assala-mu-Alaikum

Take a look.... Now this is told 1400yrs ago!!!!

* Camels will no longer be used as a means of transport;
* People will ride on saddles that aren't saddles (cars?)
  * The distance on earth will become short;
* Horses will not be used in wars;
* Muslims will defeat the Byzantines which will end with the conquest of Constantinople Istanbul);
* The Jews will gather again to live in Bilad Canaan;
* Very tall buildings will be built;
* The disappearance of knowledge and the appearance of ignorance, with much killing;
* Adultery will become widespread, and the drinking of wine will become common;
* The number of men will decrease and the number of women will increase until there are 50 women to be looked after by one man.
* Islam will become worn out like clothes are, until no one will know what fasting, prayer, charity and rituals are;
* Allah will send a disease to fornicators that will have no cure (Aids?);
* People will begin to believe in the stars and reject AL QADAR (THE DIVINE DECREE OF DESTINY);
* Men will pass by people's graves and say: 'Would that I were in his place'; (large amount of sucidal deaths?)
* The Euphrates will uncover a mountain of gold for which people will fight over (the river of Alfurat that lies near Syria );
* Two large groups of people will fight one another, and there will be many casualties; they will both be following the same rel igion World War II?);
  * Approximately 30 DAJJALS will appear, each one claiming to be the messenger of ALLAH;
* Earthquakes will increase; * Time will pass quickly;
* Afflictions will appear;
* Killing will increase;
  * Wealth will increase;
  • Women will be wearing clothes but not wearing clothes  * THE PROPHET (saw) SAID: 'IF MY UMMAH BEARS 15 TRAITS (QUALITIES), TRIBULATION WILL FOLLOW IT.' (DAY OF JUDGEMENT) SOMEONE ASKED,'WHAT ARE THEY O MESSENGER OF ALLAH?' HE (saw) SAID: * When any gain is shared out only among the rich, with no benefit to the poor;
  • * When a trust becomes a means of making profit;
  • *When paying ZAKKAT becomes a burden;
  • * When voices are raised in the mosque;
  • * When the leader of a people is the worst of them; when people treat a man with respect because what he may do;
  • * When much wine is drunk; red wind or the earth swallow them, or to be transformed into animals.'
  • * 'IMRAN IBN HUSA YN SAID: 'THE PROPHET (AS) SAID, 'SOME PEOPLE OF THIS UMMAH WILL BE SWALLOWED BY THE EARTH, TRANSFORMED INTO ANIMALS, AND SOME WILL BE BOMBARDED WITH STONES'. ONE OF THE MUSLIMS ASKED, WHEN WILL THAT BE O MESSENGER Of ALLAH?' HE SAID, 'WHEN SINGERS AND MUSICAL INSTRUMENTS WILL BECOME POPULAR, AND MUCH
  • WINE IS DRUNK.'' THE GREATER SIGNS OF THE HOUR The Quran will disappear in one night, even from the people's hearts, and no Ayah will be left on earth. (Some groups of old people will be left who will say: 'We heard of fathers' saying 'LAILLAHA ILLA ALLAH' so we repeat it);  * The appearance of the MAHDI;
  • * The appearance of the DAJJAL (Anti Christ); * The appearance of Ya'juj an d Ma'juj (biblical Gog and Magog);
  • * Isa (Jesus) will come during the time of Dajjal;
  • * The rising of the sun from the west;
  • * The destruction of the Ka'ba and the recovery of its treasures;
  • * The smoke. Just remember- Allah is watching you. Prayer Wheel, Let's see the devil stop this one! Here's what the wheel is all about. When you receive this, say a prayer for the person that sent it to you.... There are no costs, but wonderful rewards.... Let's continue praying for one another.
  • As we look at this article we realize how true the Messenger (P.B.U.H) was these signs were prophesized 1400 years ago!!!

We have sent many Jokes and Non-sensible stuff, My sincere request is to let this mail go around the world to all Mumeen and others to know more about Islam.
1- Don't let thismessage sit here.
 2- Forward this message to all you know and by the grace of Allah swt you will be blessed for each & every Dua by millions of people around the globe you forward this e-mail to.  

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Reflax For 20 Minutes a Day

Relaxing for at least 20 minutes a day will go a long way to reduce blood
pressure and your reactions to stress. Sit or lie somewhere comfortable,
Breathe slowly in and out of the nostrils breathing deeply into your
abdomen. Say HAM as you inhale and SA as you exhale. These suggestions are
charged with positive energy and will help you control your emotions. Try
once a day for fantastic results.

 
 
 

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YES YOU ARE RIGHT-------------- BEAUTY IS WORSE THAN WINE, IT INTOXICATES BOTH HOLDER AND BEHOLDER !!!!!

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R~U~K~H~S~A~N~A - we are different from Others !!!...
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The 21st century woman uses as many as 515 chemicals every day. Her humble nail varnish contains up to 31 chemicals and her perfume, a whopping 400.…



The 21st century woman uses as many as 515 chemicals every day. Her humble nail varnish contains up to 31 chemicals and her perfume, a whopping 400. Soaps, creams, lotions, gels, mousse, colours, sprays, foams, oils, serums - she uses up to nine on an average day and 15 or more on a vanity affair. But like 73% of her counterparts around the world, she does not know what the ingredients in her make-up are. And like 90 per cent, she doesn't care. Now her everyday beauty kit is under the scanner. Cosmetics are found to contain chemicals they shouldn't.
 
 
Not pretty, but true. A new study by the Delhi Institute of Pharmaceutical Sciences and Research (DIPSAR) uncovers dreaded toxins and adulterants in lipsticks, kajal, talcum powders, hair colours, toothpastes and shampoos. At the Indian Institute of Toxicological Research (IITR) in Lucknow, ongoing tests show up traces of toxicity in cosmetics. Studies on eye products by the Indian Eye Research Group (IERG) reveal how eye make-up can cause cancer. Herbal products are under fire for carrying harmful chemicals, with an Indian shampoo testing positive in the international market this year. Debates are raging about cancer-causing preservatives. Nanoparticles hiding in high-end cosmetics are being called the "new asbestos for skin". "We are exposed to a large number of chemicals through cosmetics every day, but not many people are aware of it," says Dr K.C. Gupta, director, IITR. "Most do not disclose all their ingredients-sometimes to guard trade secrets and often because the rules are not stringent."

Hope in a jar or the beauty myth? Global surveys indicate a new premium on beauty. Economists analyse why beauty helps us earn more, while sociologists show how we assign positive attributes to beautiful people. No wonder, the beauty market in India is growing at a blinding clip of 17% - twice as fast as that of the US. A 2009 four-metro Nielsen survey on modern attitudes toward beauty found over 90% of women willing to splurge on beauty products, regardless of price. "The greater presence of women in the corporate world is boosting the culture of looking good and feeling good," points out Dr Ranjan Pai, managing director of Manipal Education and Medical Group in Bangalore, which forayed into beauty and wellness retail to target them.

But the beauty boom is matched by patient footfalls, reporting adverse reaction to cosmetics. Dermatologists and ophthalmologists are raising the alarm: medics from All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) report that 69% of clients of top beauty parlours in Delhi get acne and puffiness. Fragrance, deodorants, hair dyes, sindur and eye make-up are the worst offenders, report others. About 3.3% of the population is allergic to cosmetics, shows another. "In hospital allergy clinics, 10-15% patients have cosmetic-related problems," says Dr V.K. Sharma, head of dermatology at AIIMS. "Mostly from hair-dyes, colours, fairness creams, sunscreens and herbal preparations."
 
 
Herbal is a misnomer, he adds. "Just a tiny part is herbal, the rest is like any other product." Untoward reaction to cosmetics is a common reason for eye problems-from eyelid inflammation to eczema, allergies to dry eyes. "There are too many products with toxic impurities, especially in the parallel market,"says Dr Vaishal Kenia, who heads the Kenia Eye Hospital in Mumbai. "Repeated exposure to these can cause serious long-term disorders." The DIPSAR research confirms their worst fears. Since 2008, the researchers have been busy in their lab, under the supervision of professor S.S. Agrawal, the former director. In 2009, out of 53 brands of lipstick, kajal, talcum powders, shampoos and hair colour brands, they found toxic elements like lead, copper, nickel, chromium, cobalt, arsenic in almost all-some containing as much as 20 parts per million of lead. What's more, the tests showed liver injury after 28 days of oral administration on rats. "Of the shampoo brands we studied, some were found to carry controversial preservative, parabens - that can disrupt the endocrines and cause cancer-way above the acceptable level of 0.8%," says Agrawal. "The market needs serious attention, regulation and safety standards." The DIPSAR report created an impact, and not just in the Lok Sabha. This year their study reveals significant lowering of heavy metal in all the brands they studied.

Along with chemistry, the world of modern cosmetics has taken a quantum leap forward in the new millennium. That means, there are many more chemicals per capita consumption; that the line of demarcation between drugs and cosmetics is getting slimmer; and that the rampant use of unregulated (and often unmentioned) chemicals can seriously compromise health. "Cosmetics today carry ingredients that should really be classified as drugs," says Dr Abbas Ali Mahdi, professor and head of biochemistry at Chhatrapati Shahuji Maharaj Medical University, Lucknow. But they escape the strict testing, vigilance and standardisation that drugs go through.

Take the anti-wrinkle market. The products highlight ingredients-say, collagen, alpha hydroxy acid or hyaluronic acid-that give them a hint of medical authenticity. "Nobody really knows what they add," says Mahdi. "They are supposed to raise the skin's collagen content, but actually interfere with its natural mechanism and can cause damage." Similarly, most fairness creams use a potentially carcinogenc chemical, hydroquinone, that interferes with the skin's colouring agents, melanocytes.

The new fear factor on the cosmetics front is a byproduct of cutting-edge science: nanoparticles (or particles 70 times smaller than a red blood cell), that are being adopted by big-ticket cosmetic brands-including Revlon, Clarins, Clinique, Max Factor, the Body Shop, L'Oreal and Lancome Paris-ahead of studies establishing health or environmental hazards.
 
 
Ever since the environmental network, Friends of the Earth, brought out test reports in 2008-09, nanotoxicity has become a global issue. "Nanoparticles are added to cosmetics to make them more effective," says Gupta. "But the minuscule particles can penetrate the skin, blood vessels, cells and accumulate in organs." They can produce free radicals and cause dna and cell damage. The IITR tests have found nano-titanium oxide and zinc oxide in cosmetics.

There's an alphabet soup on store shelves. But which do you choose? The Rs 60 kajal that can give you lead poisoning or the Rs 2,000 sunscreen that can lead to cancer? Half the skin-care market in India is taken up by fairness creams, but do you want to "get ahead" in life on hydroquinone? How safe is it to reach out for "herbal" products?

The banned Himalaya shampoos in UAE now comply with safety norms. Why didn't they before? And why does Fabindia's Seabuckthorn shampoo contain a synthetic foaming agent, sodium laureth sulfate, that's also controversial? Too many questions that deal with vital issues of health and not enough that provide any answer. So cross your fingers and hope that science will eventually force the government to wake up and the beauty industry to get a conscience.

Heavy Metal Test - Flouting lead content (permissible limits: 20ppm)
- Lipstick Revlon 20.3, Elle 18 24.2
- Talcum Cinthol 21, Dermicool 21.9
- Shampoo Head & Shoulders 24.2, Clinic All Clear 32.8
- Kajal Revlon Streetwear 136.3, Lakme 123.1 Biotique 28.1
- Hair colour Godrej Expert Powder 71.9, Super Vasmol 33.3
Source: Delhi Institute of Pharmaceutical Sciences and Research, 2009. Top scorers out of 10 lipstick, 15 kajal, 10 talcum, 7 shampoo and 11 hair colour brands
Shampoo
Chemicals 15
CHECK sodium lauryl sulphate or laureth sulfate
RISK skin and eye damage, potentially carcinogenic

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Foundation
Chemicals 24
CHECK polymethyl methacrylate
RISK allergies, immune system disruptions, potentially carcinogenic

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Eye Shadow
Chemicals 26
CHECK phthalate
RISK infertility, hormonal disruption, potentially carcinogenic

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Blusher
Chemicals 16
CHECK parabens
RISK rashes, irritation, hormonal disruption, potentially carcinogenic

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Lipstick
CHEMICALS 33
CHECK polymethyl methacrylate
RISK allergies, potentially carcinogenic

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NAIL VARNISH
CHEMICALS 31
CHECK phthalates, formaldehyde
RISK infertility, hormonal disruption, skin rashes, potentially carcinogenic

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PERFUME
CHEMICALS 400
CHECK benzaldehyde
RISK irritation, nausea, kidney damage, potentially carcinogenic

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BODY LOTION
CHEMICALS 32
CHECK parabens
RISK allergy, hormonal disruptions, potentially carcinogenic

Source: Environmental Working Group's Skin Deep Cosmetic Safety Database
 
 
 
 
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Don't Hate.... Educate - Part 2
 
Part2- Can You Listen With Your Eyes?
Prophet Muhammad's Communication Skills
By  Sahar El-Nadi


In ancient Arabia, eloquence meant status. Arabic is a language rich in shades and shadows, and people competed to weave words with exquisite elegance and beautiful rhythm, skillfully shaping words into works of verbal art.  
 
This is when Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was born. Although he was never taught to read and write, he had more linguistic skills than anyone.

These skills enabled him to transmit difficult concepts clearly, to all levels of audience, and in just a few words.
 
His wise sayings are called 'Hadith' (literally means 'speech' in Arabic) and they are collected in books and taught as timeless guidance to people around the world.
 
Yet when learning Hadith today, more attention is paid to the study of the exact words of the Prophet Muhammad, while overlooking an important fact which has to do with his use of many non-verbal communication skills to enhance the meanings of the words.
 
He had an exceptional ability to engage more of our senses than just our ears - even while we hear what he said hundreds of years ago.
 
Painting Mental Pictures With Words
 
When we read Hadith, we will notice that the words draw vivid pictures in our minds, with sights, sounds, smells, and feelings. At the same time, the narrators used descriptive words to give us a complete three-dimensional snapshot of each event.
 
In this way we could actually 'see' in our minds-eye the complete surrounding context, in addition to exactly what the Prophet did with the rest of his body while he spoke.
 
Instinctively, narrators used their special skill with words to share with us what they saw, heard, felt, imagined and understood - which is how they had actually learnt and changed.
 
There is a precious lesson for us here: When learning from a unique teacher with exceptional communication skills, his audience have to also be trained to use all their senses to receive meanings and learn lessons.
 
That is why their behavior was transformed in just a few years to build a brilliant civilization. Perhaps we too need to do the same today, It's not enough to mechanically memorize and recite his sayings. What's more important is to open up to the positive change the Prophet's words  cause in hearts and minds, and to follow through with practice.
 
Non-Verbal Cues Blow Your Cover
 
Communication is about delivering a message to the audience, with maximum accuracy and minimum confusion. Taking in to account the correct interpretation of their response, which reflects their perception of the meaning. These basics are essential for exchanging ideas and feelings with others effectively.
 
Modern research states that successful communicators possess the ability to engage all the senses of their audiences, through using two types of skills in accurate measure.
 
The first type is the verbal skills, or the spoken language in writing and speech. The second type is the non-verbal skills, which express the 'unspoken' context of the words to give them their true meaning, including facial expressions, body language, and vocal qualities such as volume, pitch and speed.
 
Ironically, successful delivery of a message relies more on non-verbal skills which transmit at least 70% of the meaning, while only 30% is transmitted through words.
 
Moreover, when the spoken and the unspoken messages contradict, the human brain is programmed to believe the non-verbal cues. For example: if someone says to us: "how nice to see you" but says so with sarcasm, we subconsciously receive the sarcasm and not the seemingly courteous greeting.
 
The Art of Eloquent Silence
 
There are training courses to teach us how to interpret people's unconscious gestures, and at the same time consciously send positive non-verbal signals to others to enhance mutual understanding and encourage effective communication.
 
Being the exceptional communicator he was, the Prophet Muhammad paid special attention to sending clear and consistent non-verbal messages all the time, even while he was completely silent.
 
He knew that most of his tradition will be transmitted verbally, so he spoke concisely and clearly, repeated every important idea 3 times.  But in parallel, he used very strong vocal and gesture cues consistent with his words to enhance people's memorization of what he said to be able to repeat it to others.
 
His posture was always straight and alert to reflect confidence and strength, he walked briskly to reflect purposefulness, yet his face was always relaxed and peaceful with a poised smile inviting contact and trust.
 
He gave people his full attention by turning towards them with his whole torso not just his head, which made them feel important and appreciated.
 
When he got angry, he simply looked away from the person or the event to indicate his disapproval without saying a word.
 
In a gathering, he sat anywhere not in the center indicating equality, and he always allowed direct contact indicating approachability.
 
He never looked anyone too long in the face, and used his full palm to point at people instead of pointing his finger to avoid embarrassing them.
 
Nonetheless, we find the Quran gently rectifying his non-verbal communication in a special situation, sending us a precious lesson:
 
Even Gestures Count
 
The Prophet was talking to a group of notable tribal leaders attempting to win them over, when a blind man, named Abdullah ibn Umm Maktoum, came to him with some questions.
 
Trying to focus all his attention on the potential allies, the Prophet frowned in concentration and looked away from Abdullah and towards his audience. The blind man couldn't see his frowning face or his annoyed body language, yet God blamed His Messenger for transmitting a negative non-verbal message.
 
[He frowned and turned away, Because there came to him the blind man.](`Abasa80:1-2)
 
We can't transmit an emotion sincerely unless our body language is consistent with the words. Try it yourself: face a mirror and try to sound cheerful saying 'good morning' while your face is frowning. You can't. If you don't want to hear a frown in your voice, you must actually smile so that your voice would sound friendly.
 
Now, can you imagine how the Prophet's voice would've sounded if he had spoken to his blind companion while he was frowning and turned away? The blind man would've certainly heard the annoyance in the Prophet's voice, which would generate negative feelings, and create a barrier to effective communication with a sincere friend.
 
In addition, the group of leaders the Prophet was focused on were right there watching the interaction; if The Prophet had talked negatively to the blind man, this would have been an indirect negative message to them.  This would have discouraged them from forming positive ideas about Islam, which would in result defeat the purpose of the whole communication process.
 
Because of the deep insights gained from this incident, the Prophet always smiled at that blind man saying, "Welcome to whom my Lord has blamed me" (Al-Qurtubi)
 
Later, the Prophet's wife Aisha while talking about another woman, pointed with her hand to indicate that she was too short. The Prophet  told her, "You have said a word that if mixed with the water of the sea it would spoil it!" (Abu Dawud )He called her simple gesture a 'word' and warned her it was so destructive that it could spoil a sea.
 
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
 

A smile and an open posture are well understood 'words' in a universal code.
How often do we use facial expressions or gestures publicly in a sarcastic or mocking way, mindless of their destructive effects on our image and on our communication with others?  
 
These stories teach us to mind our body language as much as our verbal language, above all because God is watching, also because others may evaluate us. and even our entire nations or cultures based on our public conduct.
 
At any given moment, imagine that someone may be evaluating how you talk to your spouse in a shopping mall, how you treat an elderly on the train, or what you do with your friends in the street.
 
If you want to be perceived as a nice person, do it all the time, with all your being, even when you think no one is looking. A smile and an open posture are well understood 'words' in a universal code.
 
So even if you don't speak a word of someone's language, remember that is only 30 percent of your tools, you still have much more to make sure they 'listen' to your friendly thoughts with their eyes.
 
The Prophet Muhammad was sent to a nation of brilliant orators, people whose main interest was words, yet he added a deeper dimension to eloquent words, which is eloquent silence, where refined actions do the talking.
 

Sahar Elnadi Holds a BA in ancient history and culture from Cairo University. Worked in many people-related careers in parallel, including presenting public events and TV programs; instructing training courses in communication, thinking skills and cross cultural issues.Long experience in the dynamics of multinational e-communities on the internet, with award winning online projects since 1998.
 
Consultant for ReadingIslam.com, answering questions about Islamic culture in English. Currently focusing on utilizing interpersonal skills to better represent local culture in various media channels. In 2006, created and launchedwww.zero-net.net; a creative cross-cultural communication project following the Danish cartoons crisis to prove that proper communication can prevent future clashes.

 

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For he who hates you, he will be cut off


For he who hates you (O Muhammad [sal-Allahu 'alayhi wa sallam]), he will be cut off (from posterity and every good thing in this world and in the Hereafter).[108:03]
 
Narrated Anas [radhi-yAllahu 'anhu]: The Prophet [sal-Allahu 'alayhi wa sallam] said,
 
"None of you will have Faith till he loves me more than his father, his children and all mankind." [Sahih Al-Bukhari, 1/15 (O.P.14)]
 
Ref.: The Noble Qur.aan 108:03

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AURAT:

Huzoor-e-Akram (SALALLAHO ALAYHE WASALLAM) k pass Hazrat Asma Binte Buraid Ansari(Radi Allah Taala Anha) ayeen, us waqt kuch Sahaba bhi maujood thay.

Hazrat Asma(Radi Allah Taala Anha): Ya Rasool Allah! Meray Maa Baap aap per Qurbaan. Mein aurton ki numainda ban kar aap k pass ayi hun. Hum sub aik aqeeda rakhtay hain, aur KHUDA aur AAP per eeman rakhtay hein, Laikin:
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* Hum aurtain ghar mein qaid o band rehti hain.

* Apnay mardon k aagay Ser Tasleem Kham kiay rehti hain.

* Un ki khuwahishaat ko pura karti hein, aur bachay paid karne aur un ki parwarish ki takaleef uthaati hein.

Aur Mard

* Namaz-e-Jama'at, aur Namaz-e-Jumma mein shirkat kartay hein

* Namaz-e-janaza mein shirkat, aur Mareezon ki ayaadat ko jaatay hein

* Subha o Shaam Ziaraat-e-Muqaddasa kartay hein

* Jihaad mein shaamil hotay hein

* Aur bauhat se kaamon mein hum per bartai rakhtay hein

Huzoor(Huzoor-e-Akram (SALALLAHO ALAYHE WASALLAM) k pass) ne Ashaab se farmaya:

"Is aurat ki Deeni Masaa'il k baaray mein behtreen guftugoo tum logon ne suni?"

Ashaab: "Ya Rasool Allah! Suni, lakin is k jawab se na-waaqif hain"

Rasool(Huzoor-e-Akram (SALALLAHO ALAYHE WASALLAM) k pass):

"(Aye Asma!) Jao, Tamam khawateen ko ye ittila do k ye tamam kaam karna, aur takaleef uthna Shauhar se naiki aur ata'at karna, ye sub kaam (Ajr-o-Sawaab mein) wo hi darja o maqaam rakhtay hein, jo mardon k aa'maal rakhtay hein."

Janab-e-Asma(Radi Allah Taala Anha) khushi khushi aur tasbeeh kartay huay Bargaah-e-Risaalat se rukhsat huin.
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* Janab-e-Zahra(Radi Allah Taala Anha) ne chakkiaan pees kar, aur ghar k tamam kaam khud baja laa kar, aur kaneez Fizza ki maujoodgi mein bhi aik din Fizza aur aik din kaam k liay apni baari le kar khawateen ki behtreen rahnumayi farmayi hai.

* Isi tarah Mard ko chahiay k aurat ki khidmaat ka aitraaf karay, aur aksar us ki mehnat ka shukria ada karay. Us ki zaruriaat aur khushion ka khayaal rakhay, aur aisa rawayya apnaye rakhay, jis se aurat ki hausla afzayi hoti rahay, aur wo itni mehnat k baad mayoos, aur zehni thakaawat ka shikaar na ho jaye.

* Fateh-e-Khaibar Saahib-e-Zulfiqar Imam Ali(Radi Allah Taala Anhu) aksar daal saaf karnay aur deegar kaamon mein Bibi(S.A) ki madad kartay, aur un ki beemaari ki soorat mein un k hissay ka kaam Fizza(S.A) se karwanay k bajaye khud anjaam detay.

Pur-sukoon zindagi sirf Deen per amal k zariay hi mumkin hai........


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