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Which is the subtle movement of the current of life from seemingly opposite but complementary polarities, we could appreciate roles enacted by beings; that is us; human beings.
That inner "being," is known with many names: soul, spirit, atma, living force. Choose your religion, you will find a label.
That "subtle energy of life," is not divided in many pieces. It is One. However, because it is expressed through many beings; it gives the appearance that it is embodied in many beings. In other words, our bodies give that energy the appearance of individuality, which is further expressed by a personality.
That is how the illusion becomes a reality.
Nevertheless, according to our consciousness; we could see "division" or "unity." It is the reality of One which perceived as many.
When we look at another human being, we are capable of distinguishing a different body, a personality and ways of behavior. We call that the "other."
There is a division. "Me" is born out of that perception of being different.
However, in the Drama of life; we can understand; that pre-ordained roles are enacted through human beings. A Personality is a role and so is the behavior.
Therefore, we could even go further and say: "A human being is not the body." That human being is not the personality or behavior either.
And we conclude, that a human being is really a metaphysical being, a soul. :-)
However, this conceptual idea will give us the same perception as with the body; that is "I am a different soul than you."
Please see the fallacy of this. All I am doing is transferring beliefs, concepts from a body to something, which I conceptualize as a soul. Just changing words.
Still ego remains for there is separation.
The concept of "ME and OTHER" or "I and YOU," are just dualistic concepts.
THE SOUL IS BEYOND DUALITY. That is why there is Oneness.
THE SOUL IS BEYOND TIME. That is why, it is eternal.
Therefore, any dualistic concept which we could pretend to dress up as soul consciousness is inherently flawed.
Male and female. Duality. If we perceive that, we are not in soul consciousness.
Me and Other. Duality. If we perceive that, we are not in soul consciousness.
Please note that to know a CONCEPT is not the same as experiencing the thing.
Male and female are concepts. The experience of male and female energies brings the natural state of complementary energies; that is unity; but any concept of separation is part of the conceptual mind, the ego.
"There is a soul in a female body with a distinguished personality." That description is part of the role. Still we have not reached the "being," the soul or the spirit.
The moment that we perceive that being, that soul while we are in that same consciousness; then at that moment; there cannot be separation. There cannot be individuality; for paradoxically, even we could perceive ourselves as individual souls; for a soul there is no such a thing as "individuality" for that brings duality and then, the experience of soul consciousness will be lost.
A soul is beyond duality.
When we realize this convoluted "reasoning," (not logic) what could be the "reasonable" behavior then?
Appreciation of the unique role performed through every soul… and love from soul to soul.
Love from the soul, the heart and appreciation of the unique part.
If you are doing that already, the forget about this writing. Throw it away. No need to figure it out.
Here is the simple example to illustrate the above.
I "do" something to "other." There is a return from that doing to "me."
If what I do, comes back to "me," then where is the "other"? :-)
That is the "illusion."
If I truly see others as "souls," how can I say that , they are different than "me"?
How can "I" do something for "them"? :-) How can "i" help them? :-)
However, when we talk, when we express through language, we need to use those concepts.
If we get caught up in concepts we will miss the "boat" of self realization.
If we self realize, we realize the "other" as well.. then, we could appreciate his/her unique "performance" in life.
 
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 DR.BK.Satyanarayan 
   


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Are YOU Ready for the Ultimate Makeover?
Do you sense you are becoming a bit stagnant, perhaps slightly stale?  Do you feel it's time to freshen your self up?  Are you ready for a 'makeover'?   
Millions, if not billions, are spent every year by millions, if not billions of people, in pursuit of a new or improved self image.  For the vast majority it's a surface exercise focused around appearances.  Facials, hairstyling, nails, eyebrows and skin all get the treatment.  The aim is to refresh ones physical image and hopefully 'ramp up' ones confidence to face whatever and whoever life brings our way!  Many will embark on some serious nipping and tucking, thinning and liposuction, scraping and exfoliating, on their way to the ultimate overhaul!  
Most people are aware that it's a superficial approach which only temporarily fixes some surface issues.  There is a feel good factor that doesn't just come out of a bottle!  But it's short lived.  There may or may not be the realization that the whole makeover process is NOT ultimately about ones appearance.  The whole exercise is really a business deal! I attract and impress you with a new or improved appearance and you give me the energy of your attention and admiration which I can then convert into a sense of esteem and worth!  Deep down most are aware that time and money could be better spent.
A few of the many who recognise that it's often a fools errand don't 'turn away' from the makeover philosophy, they 'turn deeper'.  They realise that if ones sense of self worth, security and serenity, even ones attractiveness, are to be enhanced, then it has to come from within. It is unnecessary to make visible changes, but necessary to beautify ones personality, to 'nip' those negative thoughts in the bud and 'tuck' away those feelings of helplessness and depression, to 'scrape' out those layers of habitual neediness and 'exfoliate' those long dead beliefs and misperceptions.
Just as the physical makeover can require an array of therapists, the 'personality makeover' usually entails the hunt for the personal development gurus, the experts on how realise and 'unleash' your full, unlimited, amazing and incredible potential as an all round human being!   There seems to be plenty of those around today! Some will head for the bookshop and then fill their shelves with the 'how to' self help manuals.  Others will book in for the 'miracle changes in three days' course, or the enlightenment in an afternoon workshop, or the transformation in a weekend retreat!  None will change your appearance, except perhaps to restore a spiritual twinkle to your eye. Each is more deeply intended to help you to do your own changing!  To help you find your own power to change what you think, how you feel and the way you act.  All are useful, all have a part to play, on the way to finding the 'right way for me'.  
Eventually there is the 'Rome wasn't built in a day' realization. It takes time and consciously focused effort to realise and apply the wisdom, insights, tools and inner treatments on the road to the 'more enlightened, happier and kinder me'.  The 'inner makeover' is really a cleaning and scrubbing of the soul.  It requires the continuous input of insight and information in order to trigger and sustain an ongoing process of self-realization.   It requires the conscious translation of those realizations into action in order to replace the deeply entenched habits of self-sabotage!  Then it requires time to review, as the 'results of practice' are assessed, in order to discern what is working, what 'feels' right and what is still way short of a me being the new 'inner me'!  Phew!
It can all feel like hard work.  Which is probably why so few are able to turn away from the distracting stimulations of the glamorous surfaces of the world for long enough to allow themselves to work on the 'deepest tissues' of their mental and emotional issues.
And so... in the context of this short article, for the sake of brevity in a busy world, here are seven inner makeover 'markers' that you can lay down every day without needing to sit at the feet of the guru or slope of on a ten day silence retreat.  They are all a bit 'stop and start'!  That's because each is a call to STOP and each has an invitation to START.
Stop BLAMING and Start CREATING
"Someone else is responsible", is one of the deepest layers of our programming.  It stops us from realising the primary dynamic of human consciousness which is the creative process of life and living.  Any workshop worth it's salt will facilitate your realisation that 'I am responsible for the world'.  Not the world 'out there' but how we create the world out there 'in here'!  But as long as we play the blame game, as long as we point the mental finger at anyone else for what we feel and where we are, it means we are killing our creativity.  So ...STOP IT!
Then your energy is free to START thinking creatively.  Even if it's just in retrospect to begin with.  Questions like, "How could I have responded differently or why did I react like that," serve to interrupt the old 'it's them' programming and allow you to start recovering the full spectrum of your creative abilities.  Be patient, it's a little time.
Stop WORRYING and Start LIVING
Some people, often called 'researchers', spend their time measuring how much time in our lifetime we spend in front of a TV or at our computer screen or waiting in queues.  It's usually years for each of such non-activities.  Or how much time we spend just sitting down.  That's usually many years.  But how much time do we spend worrying in a lifetime of time?  Would it be days, months or years?  Could it be as much as a decade of our entire life?  Some seem to 'worry so'!  It is probably our deepest habit.  All the while we will be the first to say that we know worry is a complete waste of time. It changes nothing.  We become absent from the present while we get lost in a fictitious future and make our self extremely unhappy in the process...now!  So...STOP IT!  
It's easy to say START living.  But it somehow doesn't compute.  Just saying it doesn't renew our enthusiasm.  Probably because we cannot see that we are not really living.  We don't easily notice that we are often just passing time before we die, occasionally interrupting our self with fleeting moments of excitement that we mistake for a happy life.  Occasionally, in between such moments, we might think, "Is this all there is"?   Then we worry if we will ever know authentic happiness before time runs out!  Life only begins when you realise you have no future!  Now there is a meditation!
Stop REGRETTING and Start FORGETTING
Sometimes we need to refer to a previous experience in order to deal with what's in front of us now.  That's when looking back is OK.   But wishing it could have been different, that we could have made a better choice, that things could/should have been avoided or defended better, is to lose your self in a fictional and speculative mental movie.  STOP it!  Forget the past.  The past, as they say, is past!  What keeps the past alive is our 'idea' of the future. We keep using the future to create a better past!  It's all about the 'story of me'.  It's the story we tell ourselves about ourselves.  We don't realise 'I am not a story' of a future or a past, I am me, here and now!  If there is any desire for success and/or achievement in the future then the past will often be a heavy weight pulling us back into doubt and excuses, "I can't succeed/achieve because I said this or did that or thought this and chose that".  All references to what is long gone.  
To START forgetting requires the conscious practice of releasing our self from the story of our life.  That requires the realisation that, "I am not a story"!  That means forgetting what other people in my story have said and done, and what I have said and done in response, yesterday.  That means forgetting any sorrow and suffering that you felt throughout all your yesterdays.  It is possible.  We are capable of starting a new story every day.  But first we have to experiment and taste the difference it makes to the quality of our life, to our relationships in life, when we cease to regret and just forget.
Stop RESISTING and Start ACCEPTING
It's seems that we are fated to live a life of resistance while not being aware that we do so.  Even when we seem to know that whatever we resist will persist, we still insist to resist!  Whether it's someone else's ideas, or their desires, or their opinion, or just 'them', we square up against them, even if it's just in our own mind.  In such moments we are essentially killing our contentment and generating anxiety.  
So ...STOP IT!  Try starting to accept everything.  It doesn't mean agreeing, but stop disagreeing.  It doesn't mean condoning, but stop condemning.  As you do you will generate a very different quality of energy.  When you START to accept all and everything and everyone as they are you will start to feel calmer and much more positive about ...everything and everyone.  You will start to connect with others in a way that builds and nurtures the relationship.  The needle jumps out of the old groove and your life plays a new and delightful note.  Oh yes it will!
Stop TAKING and Start GIVING
Any impatience means we cannot wait to receive.  Wanting, having, keeping, holding, grasping, are all forms of taking.  It's not wrong.  It's just not very enlightened.  Notice there is always a tension, an anxiety, perhaps an intense fear, that sits behind each.  This is how to make your self stressed.  So ...STOP IT!  Start receiving.  START realising and knowing that you are always receiving what you need, at each and every moment.  That's a revolutionary idea to most minds.  Don't fight that idea.  Try not to resist it as an assault on logic.  Stop and reflect, look around, notice where you are.  Can you see what is happening around you at this moment is exactly what you need.  And if it seems or feels like nothing is happening, then know that 'that nothingness' is necessary in this moment.  It is probably there to help you to acknowledge and cure your addiction to the agitations that accompany the desire for something to happen all the time! 
START releasing, offering, sharing, giving and you'll also notice you naturally start receiving.  There will likely be the feeling of a very different energy that comes not from others or from the world, but from your own heart!   Wise is the soul who lives to give.  Happy is the soul who cares and shares.  Clever is the soul who receives, but never takes, in order to give!
Stop THINKING and Start FEELING
We tend to leave our heart and live in our mind.  We live 'in' what's 'on' our mind and this is where and why emotion is created.  We have an idea or we create an image in our mind.  That's OK.  But it's not so OK when we lose our 'self' in the image/idea.  Then, when something happens to what the image and/or idea represents in the world around us, it feels like it's happening to us.  What we feel is a disturbance in our consciousness that we call 'emotion'.  It's not long before we start to believe that our emotions are all we can feel.  
We make this mistake so often it feels normal.  We then become addicted to our emotions and we forget how to feel.  Which really means we forget how to choose our feelings.  Which really means we forget how to 'be undisturbed' within our consciousness by anything that happens outside of our self.
It's easy to say STOP IT i.e. stop living in what's on your mind.  But it's probably the most ingrained habit of man and womankind!  In order to START feeling, which means start consciously choosing what you feel, you will have to leave your mind and return to your heart, the heart of your being.  When you live from the heart you then become the master of your mind.  
Sit quietly and make the journey of no distance in one second, from your mind to your heart, from thought to feeling, from noise to silence, and you may see for your self if that 'feels' right to you?
Stop DOING and Start BEING 
Its tough to stop being a compulsive doer! The speed of events is accelerating.  The imperative is to do more in less time.  The world is now filled with rushaholics! It's not difficult to become and action addict, especially when there is the fear of being left behind.  From the day we arrive all we seem to hear is, "This is what you have to do...This is what they did....This is what needs to be done..."!
We even feel we have to do something in order to relax and do nothing! 'I'm busy' is our mantra. Preoccupied is our attention.  Agitated is our state.  We believe we have to be seen by others to be always doing something, working on something, creating something.  So we chase feelings of importance, fulfillment and worth through action. 
So... STOP IT!  Stop being a 'human doing' and start doing a human who is just being!  Can you start just allowing whatever is happening to happen, to occur, to appear, as it will!  Can you just be with others without trying to advise them, find out about them, fix them, make them feel what you think they 'should' feel?  Can you just be with others and with the world and watch the variety forms and multilayered textures of life just...appear, and then disappear?  If you can you will notice the fictions that you have been creating, the illusions that you have been sustaining, through all your incessant 'doings'.  You will feel the reality and the power of 'the being' that you are.  And you will know that that is all you are.  And that will be enough!  Quite enough!
Question:  Which one of the above did you find most challenging and why?
Reflection:  Take each one and ask your self, "Why is it not so easy for me to do this?"  Reflect slowly!
Action:  Take one of the above each day for the coming week and experiment with it throughout the day and see what a difference it makes, or indeed how challenging it is to enact.  Then reflect on how you did at the end of the day.

 Your Divine Friend
 DR.BK.Satyanarayan 
   
 
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Easy Does It
 
Steer easily through life by keeping a light touch on the controls, and a strong sense of humour.
 
 
When you are content you can give the experience of contentment to others too.
 
Each day check if you are content with what you are doing. Also check if others are content with what you are doing in your life. If there is an experience of contentment within yourself others will be content with you. At the end of each day, make a mental list of all that you have attained for the day, things that you are happy about. This will enable you to be content even during the phase when things are not going so smooth, because you are able to look at the positive aspect too.
 
 
Natural Qualities and Acquired Qualities

When we look at ourselves from outside we can only see the surface of what we have become. We can't see or perhaps cannot even imagine the inner core (center), which, like in the example of the coconut, is the only part that really can nourish us and give us energy. The shell (in the case of the coconut) serves as a protection but we certainly can't eat it.

In our case, the core (center) consists of natural or inner qualities such as peace, love, power, truth, happiness and so on. The shell is the ego which consists of features or personality characteristics we have acquired through the journey of our lives such as experiences, abilities, memories, learning, habits and beliefs - in short, all that we are referring to when we say: 'I am so-and-so, from such-and-such family or organization or city'.

While we are limited to these acquired characteristics, our true qualities remain inaccessible. Through deep reflection and meditation we can break the shell and activate our inner qualities from which our values or principles are born.
 
Soul Sustenance


The Hurting Of The Ego

Almost everyday or every second day we come across a situation when someone says something to us which is not very pleasurable or we chose to perceive it to be so. In either case, we feel insulted and get upset as a result. In some cases we react and display our feelings. In some, we don't. In either case, the result is a depreciation (decrease) in our happiness index. Why does this happen? It's because you have created, attached to and identified with an image of yourself in your mind that does not match with how the other sees or perceives you, as a result of which you believe you have been insulted and you get upset. As long as people's perception of you matches the image that you have created inside your mind of your self, you are content with them, but as soon as the opposite happens, even if its to a very small extent, you become disturbed, because you are attached to that image. The more the attachment, the greater the hurt, the disturbance or reaction. You could examine this phenomenon very closely, taking place inside yourself everyday.

This kind of attachment mentioned above is called ego. That's why the phenomenon explained above is called in common language 'the hurting of the ego'. We commonly use the terms 'my ego got hurt' or 'I think your ego got hurt'. 'You hurt my ego' is nothing but 'you hurt or harmed the image that I carry of myself with me each second everyday.' Because I carry it with me all the time, I have become attached to it. e.g. If, on a particular day, you reach home late from office and your wife, who is angry with you, accuses of not being a family man and one who doesn't give enough time to her and the children. Your reasons for reaching home late may be genuine or not, your wife may be right or wrong on that particular day. In either case, you carry an image of yourself, all the time, as being a very loving, caring father and husband, who has been responsible for the all-round growth and development of the family in all respects since the family was created. Your wife's words basically pinch that invisible image, as a result of which you feel insulted and hurt and you react angrily, not necessarily in front of your wife, but it could be in front of someone else or even just internally. The image that we all carry of our selves is made of various traits or characteristics, obviously the characteristics of each one's self-created image are different. These characteristics of the image may or may not actually exist inside the real self, but whenever someone challenges any of those characteristics or tries to suggest to us that one of those characteristics is not ours or does not exist inside us, we react.


Message for the day


To be powerful is to fly easily over the biggest obstacle.

Expression: When there is an awareness of the inner strength, difficult circumstances seem very easy to cross over. Nothing seems difficult or as a big obstacle, but the inner strength gives the power to very easily and quickly cross over all difficult and challenging situations.

Experience: When I have the power to fly, i.e., to go above the situations, I do not feel the bondage of the situation. So when I am up above everything down below (even the biggest mountain) seems very tiny and insignificant. So there is quick and steady progress experienced even when there are difficult situations in my life.

 
 Your Divine Friend
 DR.BK.Satyanarayan 
   

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INTERESTING THING ABOUT FRIDAY IN 2013

 

5/4/13            FRIDAY

 

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11/10/13        FRIDAY

 

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JO CALENDER 1991 KA THA….

 

…………..WOHI,,,,

 

CALENDER 2013 KA HAI,

 

DATE & DAY EVEN FESTIVALS ARE SAME….

 

KAUN KEHTA HAI, K…………….

 

GUZRA HUA WAQT WAPAS NAHI AATA???

 

 

I HOPE, I AM THE FIRST ONE WHO INFORM U…

 

ENJOY THE YEAR OF 1991 IN 2013….!

 

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WE ARE BACK IN THE 90s…..

 

MUSHARRAF IS BACK,

 

NAWAZ SHARIF IS BACK,

 

NAHEED AKHTAR IS BACK ,

 

HAVE A NICE WEEKEND….

 

 


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Best father-daughter wedding moments

The wedding season is here, and apart from all the fun & frolic, weddings can also be emotional, especially for fathers. Here's an ode to to the priceless love fathers and daughters share


You were my first love, always there for me [Image Courtesy: Richa Kalshekar]



But I loved her first and I held her first. [Image Courtesy: Anshum M Photography]



Together with a wink and a smile, we go together like a wink and a smile [Image:Photo Tantra]



And I let you know your daddy Forever will be there [Image: Photo Tantra]



I know I gotta let her go, but I'll always remember every hug in the morning and butterfly kisses.



Oh, I cannot believe my eyes today My Daughter is a Bride [Image:Photo Tantra]



To send you on your way, I wish you every happiness [Image: Faizaan Patel]



She was sent here from heaven and she's daddy's little girl [Image: Photo Tantra]



I close my eyes at night, wondering where would I be without you in my life [Image:Photo Tantra]



The one that I read all those fairy tales to [Image: Photo Tantra]
 
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Recently a 42 Commando Indian MilItary Troop captured a Taliban leader in kASHMIR and took him to a warehouse where they gave him a dice.
 
The Sergeant says "Roll the dice and if you get a 1 2 3 4 or 5 your head comes off''.
 
The Taliban Leader asks ''What if I throw a 6?''
 
The Sergeant replies "You get to throw again"! ........
 
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