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Daily Positive Thoughts: July 09, 2014: Change

 

 

 

Change

When there is growth, changes are automatic, if I fear change, how can there be growth?

 

 

An Open Mind

When someone corrects or gives any advice or suggestion, there is
usually some amount of resistance and we become unwilling to listen.
When I put in a lot of effort, I normally feel I have done the task to
the utmost perfection and so am not able to listen to any suggestions
from anyone. But this kind of attitude does not help to learn and
progress. I need to keep my mind constantly open to learning in order
to experience constant progress. When I have the attitude of learning I
am able to learn from everything that happens. And thus I will also be
able to bring improvement in each and every task that I do.

 

Factors That Shape Our Perception (cont.)


If someone believes that Indians are very generous, good-hearted people, and they have this ingrained in their subconscious, this thought will form part of their perception of India. Perhaps not only part of their perception: they may even identify fully with this belief. In other words, the thought becomes a belief and finally one identifies with the belief. The same holds true for any negative belief about anything or anyone.

There are four main criteria that may influence how our perception of reality is distorted or altered (changed). These are: 

Mental Positioning 
Mental position is the internal position from which we see situations, and may be positive or negative. For example, we are really excited about owning a new car, but after buying it we start worrying about where to park it, if it may be stolen or we might meet with an accident. Another example is that of the professional who has always dreamt of being promoted at work and, when he gets it, starts to fear losing it. According to our mental positioning we experience fear (a negative state of mind) or we feel confident (a positive one). A correct mental positioning broadens our conscience and improves our lives and relationships. 

To live in the present in a relaxed way and planning the future with an open and optimistic view, we should be able to free ourselves from preconceived ideas and the influences that dominate our perceptions. To do this, the best mental position is that of being an impartial observer. In this way we can observe, recognize and transform (change) those thoughts, attitudes that cause us pain, anxiety and stress. 

(To be continued tomorrow ...)

 

Soul Sustenance

Practical Ways of Changing Old Habits or Beliefs (Part 1) 

Motivation for Change 


An important factor to start positive change in our lives is for there to be a passion, a powerful force that leads us, a final goal that keeps us motivated. It is important to set yourself goals, to be convinced and to have the confidence and faith that one can reach them, since in this way we will make a daily effort to achieve those goals. There needs to be a clearly defined sense of purpose to your existence, clarifying the values that must guide your life in order to achieve these goals and establish the steps you must take for inculcating these values. If, at a subconscious level, you allow a mistaken purpose to be created, or there is a lack of true purpose in your life, then you will not be motivated to know and change yourself. Many people think that the purpose of their life is to survive and they use the language of survival in this way: "Life is hard out there. You must get whatever you can". They are not aware that they have chosen this purpose, but subconsciously it is what they believe they are here for, and this makes them think that they must accumulate, take, create barriers to protect themselves and compete with others. 

(To be continued tomorrow …..) 

 

 

Message for the day

 

Where there is humility there is the give and take of love. 

Expression: Usually we don't even know when we are working with our ego because it is deeply concealed. Even when someone points out our ego, we don't want to accept it and we continue to work with it. Ego finishes the ability to learn and negatively effects our relationships because there is no give and take of love. 

Experience: The method to overcome ego is to develop humility. Humility means to be strong within yet to be gentle and flexible. This enables us to bend i.e., to bow. When we bow it doesn't mean we are defeated, but reveals our own victory. It is only when we bend and forgive that we will be able to allow the flow of love in relationships. 


DR.BK.SATYANARAYAN

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`I feared...`

I feared being alone,
Until I learned to like myself.

I feared failure,
Until I realized that I only fail when I don't try.

I feared success,
Until I realized That I had to try In order to be happy with myself.

I feared people's opinions,
Until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway.

I feared rejection,
Until I learned to have faith in myself.

I feared pain,
Until I learned that it's necessary for growth.

I feared the truth,
Until I saw the ugliness in lies.

I feared life
Until I experienced its beauty.

I feared death,
Until I realized that it's not an end, but a beginning.

I feared my destiny,
Until I realized that I had the power to change my life.

I feared hate,
Until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.

I feared love,
Until it touched my heart, making the
darkness fade into endless sunny days.

I feared ridicule,
Until I learned how to laugh at myself.

I feared growing old,
Until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.

I feared the future,
Until I realized that Life just kept getting better.

I feared the past,
Until I realized that It could no longer hurt me.

I feared the dark,
Until I saw the beauty of the starlight.

I feared the light,
Until I learned that the truth would give me strength.

I feared change,
Until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly
Had to undergo a metamorphos is before it could fly.`

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 `Bhulaa de mere sapne, sajja le appne sapne..``
Kahan woh nagme sapne,Kahan yeh aatishi sapne
Tumhi se ashyana the jo,Veh tum bin ajnabi apne
 
Meeree tarah na dekha kar,Sanam tu aajji sapne
Hazoor ab ho gaye sapne,Voh apne bahami sapne
Nahi aate yeh jiwan bhar,Maoram dilkashi sapne
Badan kab tak tapaoge,Jala kar makhmali sapne
 
Uda di nind sapno ki,Karenge khudkhushi sapne,
Voh mausam he kahan hai ab,Macha de khalbali sapne
Tu kissi se mil ke janam,Bana le jindagi sapne.
Bhulaa de mere sapne, sajja le appne sapne..``
 

Rose!

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 ``Celebration..?   Or you mean Illustration?`
 

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 In a sudden turn of events in the final seconds of their opening match, Switzerland took advantage of Ecuador's own missed opportunity and scored the most improbable and dramatic goal of the World Cup so far, giving the Swiss the win with just 20 seconds remaining.
It looked like Switzerland and Ecuador were headed towards the first tie of the World Cup. But in the final minute of stoppage time, Ecuador took advantage of a bad pass by Switzerland and started what looked like a promising counter-attack.
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Ecuador's Antonio Valencia had a full head of steam and with four defenders back, it looked like he had a direct path to the goal and a chance for an open shot as the defenders were waiting for the cross.
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As a defender closes in on Valencia he plays a perfect cross to an open teammate.
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But instead of taking a one-timer or an immediate shot, the Ecuadorian player hesitated, allowing two Swiss players to converge on the ball and close off any shooting lanes.
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A nice sliding tackle by one defender causes Ecuador to turn the ball over without even taking a shot.
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Rather than defend the ball, three of the Ecuadorian players are now standing around and showing their disgust at the missed opportunity. This leaves Switzerland with an advantage on the attack.
Sensing the advantage, one player for Ecuador appeared to intentionally try to draw a foul so his team could reset.
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Instead, the referee allowed the play to continue which allowed the attack to continue and effectively took another Ecuadorian player out of the play.
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Amazingly, Ecuador has left themselves in a position where the Swiss have a 6-on-4 advantage in the final seconds of a tied match. A long cross to the other side sets up the final play.
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However, the play almost never happened as a high bounce on the pass nearly sent the ball out of bounds. Instead, Ricardo Rodriguez manages to get a toe of his boot on the ball and keep it in bounds.
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Rodriguez manages to control the ball and move towards the box. Meanwhile, Haris Seferovic, who delivered the pass to Rodriguez from the other side, is now sprinting past the defenders in the box.
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A perfect pass from Rodriguez around the defender left a wide-open Seferovic with an easy shot into the top of the net.
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The referee would blow the whistle 20 seconds later and the match was over and the celebration was on.
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Especially for the Swiss Cheeseheads.
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