Our problems are not really the problem; our reaction to the problem is our actual problem. It is the quality of our reaction which decides our happiness or pain.In the same situation different people will react differently. The situation does not trigger the reaction, it is the sanskar of the person which will create the reaction.When we get disturbed by someone's behavior, we are making that person powerful. We believe they have the power to affect our state of mind.We have the sanskar of anger and also of peace. We choose which sanskar to use, depending on person and situation. Let us not give our self the liberty to get angry with anyone, irrespective of their age, relation or position.
10% of conflict is due to difference in opinion and 90% is due to wrong tone of voice. Raise your words, not your voice.The first step to transformation is not to justify your negative emotion, but to take personal responsibility of having created it.When we justify our emotion, we blame others for it. We then expect them to change and do not find the need to change our self.To change any habit we need to answer three questions. WHY should I change? HOW do I change? and most important Do I WANT to change? Unless the WANT to change is there, the HOW to change will not get implemented.
Your Divine Friend
DR.BK.Satyanarayan
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