Short Points On Oppressing one's wife: By Mufti Ismail Musa Menk - Giving preference to your friends over your wife is oppression.
- Screaming and yelling at your wife is oppression.
- Coming home late each night or coming to bed late each night without a valid excuse is oppression.
- Wasting time on the internet or phone, television or games whilst your wife is waiting for you is oppression.
- Not spending reasonable time with your wife is oppression.
- Not commending her upon her goodness, sacrifice and achievements whilst only harping on her weaknesses is oppression. Be fair!
- Not correcting her in the most loving manner and going around publicizing her errors or wrongdoings is oppression.
- Not providing at least the basic food, clothing, shelter and other basic needs for her is oppression.
- Not appreciating that she is someone's daughter or sister and treating her like a slave is oppression.
- Allowing your mother or family members to disrespect or maltreat your wife is oppression.
- Allowing others to invade her privacy is oppression.
- Not giving her the rest that she deserves post child birth is oppression.
- Swearing and cursing your wife is oppression.
- Making false promises to your wife is oppression.
- These are just some ways that men oppress their wives.
- Shame upon those men who oppress their wives.
- Well, change your ways, apologize and repent before the Almighty overtakes you with His Wrath.
- Remember the Holy prophet Muhammed (pbuh) says, "The best of you are those best to their wives." -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------My Blog on Tazkiya and Maarifa: http://tazkiyatips.blogspot.com/
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